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How does one succeed in life?

14.06.2025 07:08

How does one succeed in life?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Making more friends is a goal.

What I need from you?

If you were president, how would you make America "great again?"

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Hangs out with loser friends.

Is it okay or problematic to be both Black and gay in society in the 21st century?

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Is having white skin really that attractive?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

Why would a person always be so tired?

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Why does it matter so much to atheists that God doesn't exist?

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

Some men love anal sex more than vaginal sex. Why?

Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Ask yourself:

Do not set goals—set systems.

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Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

That's it for today.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

How can I get my ex-husband to love me again?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

How come Jesus died on Friday and rose on Sunday? That's not 3 days and three nights.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Are LGBT people accepted in Japan?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Does not procrastinate.

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Procrastinates a lot.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.